Love – a divine feeling that has no limits and has no particular reason or season to start or end, it happens when our heart is ready to accept the love. It is an unknown feeling that itches us to urge and find a mate who can be in the rhythm just like us.
And the teenage urges a person to fall in love and then that is why many of us end in taking spontaneous decisions and then falling into the depression because the things are not like we dreamt and persons will keep on changing constantly.
Love is not just a feeling, it is something that binds two persons together, whether these persons may be friends, family or some stranger, it will develop the bond so strong that without that person you are not going to start your day. They will become everything in your life and you will be then carried away by clouds of dreams.
Having someone like that and finding someone who is so closest to your heart is never going to be an easy task.
I have undergone through many phases of depression and then I wrote a book on how to overcome it, I tried to find the love in my loneliness until I meet the love of my life. And when I finally met, no questions were asked, I was completely dipped in her love and nothing can be felt as great as it.
The Beginning
Love will never have a standard beginning, it may begin anytime and anywhere, there is no perfect time for it, mine has begun like I was completely unaware of it when the feeling lit a light in me, that turned out into a fire and that fire has forced me to fall in love and to propose her. It has the power to confess ourselves.
I always say one thing about love in my blogs, love has many forms and that can only be felt if we are able to understand the other person completely. Luckily, I found the one who can understand me like that.
It is not about dating or going to parks or sitting together in the movie theatres, love has its own place to germinate like a seed of a plant. It doesn’t require the luxuries to develop, it is solely dependent on the key factor called trust, and if we have trust issues, then there is no possibility of love and love has no signs to show if we doubt our partner.
Confessing will make us move closer
We all had a past, in that past life we all may have undergone through some tough times and sometimes we may have done many mistakes by taking incorrect decisions which may be taken knowingly or unknowingly. We need to share everything with our partner about our past. No matter what how bad you are, if we confess ourselves, the bridge of trust is laid right there and we may have chances to move into the future with the trust which we have built by sharing our past with our partner.
If we hide things or try to hide them, they will one day become the huge rocks which will destroy the love apart and it will raise doubts on your partner, it is always suggested to confess your deeds with your better half.
In my case, I have confessed everything to my love and I had no chances to escape from her sight, at the beginning, itself I had handed over my android device to her and thereby I have gained her trust. Then she did share with me all her past, then that made us both to move closer and develop a relationship that which is going to be last long by God’s grace.
Make some Covenants
Making promises is an easy thing to do, but to make those promises to workout and then standing on the word which we gave is a huge task to do. We both made few covenants in our lives, that we are going to share everything with each other by the end of the day in our daily life. It is a routine thing to discuss, but it is never easy to share the smallest moments which we forget easily after happening. We both take notes of each and every single point and then we share each other. We always try to eliminate the worst and try to learn from our mistakes.
Sometimes, by sharing everything will lead to a small fight, but always remember that these fights are going to be settling down before the sun sets and if we don’t share, we are going to have huge fights.
So, promise each other and try to stay bound and sincerely accept the mistakes which were made.
Conclusion
Loving the person and marrying a person, these both are not going to coincide with everyone, loving a girl and cheating her behind is not a man thing, it is done by rogues and it has nothing true in it, the same thing applies for a girl if she cheats on her love.
Marrying someone we love is considered as a huge success in our life, it only happens with few persons, sacrificing love is completely different from it. And convincing every one even if there are huge indifferences is divine.
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